n The best aphrodisiac is that of a sexual fantasy, it's powerful and enticing. Yes, this is a the best way to use that time. Just be normal. An old standby like the missionary (man on top, woman lying on her back) thou can be the best sexual position. 3. What do those ASMR sensations feel like? Then, you can segue into physical sensations: "Start by lightly touching your partner all over, like a light tickling. A soothing message shows your partner you care, deepening your emotional connection...